brah

It just seems that more parents these days are getting worse and worse when it comes to responsibility. Parents don't give a damn about children anymore, the lot of them. It's pathetic, and I hope I can be one of the people to break that chain or bad habit.

pm me or post in the league thread when you can fight =D

k lol i was taking a nap for like a hour lol can we battle now?

brah can we have the rematch 4 vs 4 single?

k man im ready to fight

give me like 5-8 mins i have to take out my dog

hey i can battle right now check the league thread

Sadly I don't think my mother is ever going to grow up. Her mental condition seems to worsen every year. I have tried for years and my grandparents have tried for years, but we can never make her listen. She doesn't seem to care about anyone but herself, sadly.

Hell, I'd forbid April to see it too. My grandparents forbade my father to see me... They told him, "If you and your family can come sober then you can see her." They couldn't come sober, so my grandparents just forgot about them.

Sadly, there is nothing you can say to that. It's pitiful.

Yeah, she needs to grow up big time. She's got me really really worried about her future. I mean, when it comes to my mother I honestly feel like I am raising a child. And that's an odd feeling. She should have been raising me, I am the child. But she seems to have a mental condition that makes her seem to age backward in time, when she should really be aging forward. She is like a teenager with all her boyfriends, she won't listen to reason and thinks that she is in love when she has only been with them for a week.

I don't know. TJ was put in prison, thank god. Hopefully is rotting away... Being someones *****. I hope my father is in the same boat. I dislike both of them for what they have done to their own children. My father ended up having another baby by another woman... My half brother was not so lucky, he didn't stay with either parent, he was taken away to live in foster care. He doesn't really know either one of his parents. My father won't claim him, but my brother looks JUST like him and me. There is no way that he can deny him.

Yep. I saw what my mother went through... All that I have told you and now she sits on her ass all day on the couch waiting to die. She simply waits for like... Nothing. She never wants to do anything with herself, doesn't want to travel, doesn't want to see anything, doesn't want to get up and do anything. She wants to just sit there and hang out with friends, so she will seriously sit on her couch and just wait for people to call her. Omg.

I have tried to talk to my mom about the kind of trash she lets into her house, but she never listens to me. She sees me as the child, and she's the mother, so she's always right and I don't know what in the world I am talking about, even though I am an adult and make better decisions than even she does. When I was around age 10, seriously, I was making better decisions. She gave me a horrible impression of men when I was younger, I won't lie. All the guys she has ever been with screamed at her, screamed at me, stolen off of her, beaten their kids (not me, but not a single one of the many boyfriend shs'e had been able to actually keep and take care of their own kids. The guy she's with now got both of his kids taken away, and one of his kids, his daughter, said that he sexually abused her. I have no idea if that is true or not.) and tried to steal all of her things. I used to be afraid of both of her husband (when she was married I was a really little girl and couldn't defend myself) and they would have both of us in a corner sobbing and swinging bats and knives. And I guess I just grew up very angry natured and mistrusting of people. Especially men. I am trying to get past that stage, but there are just a lot of things that I can't get over very easily.

Actually, I understand where you're coming from. I have a cousin who I have a horrible problem with. My cousin Robin married this man called TJ, and I really liked him. I was really young (yet again, I was young) and he had two kids with Robin, a son and a daughter. Well, when I was young, I had no idea the bad side of the world because my grandparents protected me and kept a very strong eye on me. They mistrusted TJ immediately, and kept me away from him. Later on, we found out that he was sexually abusing his son and going for his daughter. My whole family wanted to get a piece of him.

It just seems that people in my family have this wonderful nack for choosing horrible men. The only ones are my grandmother and great-grandmother, they chose decent men who knew how to act and treat people. I hope I am meant to be one of them who chooses right.

Yeah. I just wish my parents (seems like our parents in this case) would just grow up. I wish my dad could keep himself out of prison and I wish my mother could keep away from the moochers. Most of them are abusive drug-addicted *******s anyway, and yes, she's had a bunch of people come to her house just to take the drugs because she LETS them do whatever they want. And if your brother gets physically sick then they should have the decency to quietly take the argument into their own room and talk it out there without getting loud enough to disturb him.

I do not live by myself. I was raised by my grandparents because my mother nor father could take care of me. My father walked out on my stealing all my money and stuff that was saved for my college fund when I was just an infant, and my mother deeply concerned my grandparents (who I call mom and dad) when she wanted to leave me completely alone in my crib for hours just to hang out with a friend at her house. My mother isn't exactly the brightest bulb in the package....... And honestly, when it comes to visiting my mother it always ends up with something bad happening. I can not see my own mother without disaster seeming to happen. It's so hard to keep my patience with her because she constantly tries me.

She says that he is treating her right, but I have no idea if that is true or not because I am not around them. But last time I spoke to Mark there were some pretty big problems between the two that neither one of them are going to want to come out and say. Both of them are too stubborn to admit that they are wrong in anything, blame each other all the time, and constantly need a mediator. Drives me crazy, because I am always the mediator. I have to counsel them through their problems.

I know. My mother seems to want what's best for me sometimes, but. She thinks about herself more than anyone else... Well, and her boyfriends. She rarely ever comes by to see me anymore. She waits for me to come to her, she always thinks I am busy, and I always think that she is busy. I dunno. I just feel like eventually things are going to worsen and we're either going to fight all the time or we're never going to keep up a relationship.

The rednecks here seem nice in a roundabout way, but I don't know... Maybe it's my mistrust for people that really gets it going. But the guy my mother is dating, he mistreated her a lot in the past, and mother says that he's changing, but I just don't know. My mother has a horrible nack for dating boys that are very mean to her, and having them in and out all my life (all of them being rednecks who want booty call or a house to live in for free and a woman to take care of them) and this one doesn't seem any different. He's wanting to buy me all kinds of things now, but I think he's honestly trying to buy my friendship. I just don't know what to think about him.

Same here, honestly. I love my mother with all my heart, but we can never get along anymore. My mother is a fighter, but she lacks common sense. She'll do really stupid things in public and talk a big fight that she cannot back up. She doesn't really respect the law very much and she doesn't want me to travel abroad. She wants me to simply sit at home the way she does, never work, never do anything, and wait for her to decide she wants me to take her to the store for the rest of her life. I won't do that. She wants me to live like her, and I have no intention of doing that.

Yeah... The rednecks I have met and live around me are sick and disgusting.
What are they like where you live? I have a hard time imagining hicks differently.

That sounds a whole lot like my mom and I. I don't trust people, but she can just newly meet someone and trust them with her life thinking that she can just see the good in people easily... Even if there really isn't any good in people. She and I always come to this kind of... I dunno, pit stop and we just can't figure out how to handle each other.

Omg. lol. I have never been able to stand in a room for a minute with a redneck. My mother has this, like, attraction to them. The only kind of people I ever see at her house are rednecks who do not know how to shave their faces, and get this, they actually lift their shirts up and scratch their bare hairy bellies in front of me. I'm serious, no joke. And that is disgusting. They are so ridiculously macho too. Talk about how they aren't afraid of a loaded gun in their face. Whatever. They would probably piss all over themselves if someone pointed a loaded gun in their face. I hate rednecks.

My mom has a lot of issues. My mother and I are also polar opposites. She and I simply can't stand each other, and honestly over the years I have been trying to avoid her as much as possible. She does a lot of stupid things that I just can't understand and relate to. She is the sentimental type who thinks with her heart and trusts everybody, I'm the more emotionless type who thinks more with her head and hates people and wants to be a hermit. And she acts like a damn child.

k omw in

oh weird my dsi was saying ur in a battle when i went of wifi a few mintues ago lol

hey u wanna bttle again?

hey i hope u win the battle ur in

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I usually associate rap with backward hicks who can't even say their abc's. (And, sadly, my mother, although she was not raised to be a hick... She became friends with them and became one of them...) And just in general people I don't like. It really seems to me that everyone I dislike listens to rap. And I have always hated gangsters and 'black-speak', and I'm not racist. It just bothers me. I hear a lot of that obnoxious behavior in rap.

Mmhmm! Haha.
Actually, the only time I feel like I would rather be ANYWHERE but home is when my mother is around... Oh wow. She drives me mad!