See, I wasn't all that popular in my youth, nor did I care that much for it, because all the time I see the "in-crowd" people get mean to new students, or they would just comment or bully others, so I guess I was a little socially withdrawn on making new friends and such, because it was hard to find people to whom I trust. So one of the reasons I made more friends with girls is because I met girls in my school who are honestly just like me, and wouldn't tolerate such bullying too. They are not the popularest bunch, but and people are people. I find that social standing is overrated.