Belldandy

^_^ you really are~

I wish you luck on your goals. From what I've seen of you, you're doing a really good job. Again, good luck c:

That's good to hear. share pls x) I kid.

oooh..someone's keeping fit. That's really nice to see, tbh

Thank you! Enjoy the gastly :)

great, as always. still admiring that profile of yours :p

you? x)

Yes, I am. I'll send the trade request now :)

hi there :)

Yep, send me a trade request once you catch me online! :)

I'm online right now :)

Added you. :) VM me when you are online!

Well I wouldn't say I'm an expert, but I have a good grasp of a lot of the general principles. The biggest thing really is to just be aware of your thoughts, and actions. But since I like discussing this stuff, I guess I'll do some theorizing :]


The second part is easier to address. If you listen carefully, you'll notice that most people use a different pitch when talking to either gender. People's voices also change when talking to old people or kids, but that's less of a pitch change and more of an inflection or such. So I would say it's something to do with how you are perceiving the other person and how you're presenting yourself to them.

Try notice when your pitch changes, and how it changes differently for different people.

For example, when I talk to guys I don't know, my voice gets like an octave lower, and a bit gruff. When I talk to girls I don't know, it gets softer and a little higher pitched. When I talk to people I'm familiar with, the pitch doesn't go through these extreme changes. But it's hard for me to really draw a conclusion from that, other than to vaguely say it has something to do with genders and/or attraction.


The cattish-ness, well that's a bit tougher to explain exactly, since I don't know your history and whatnot. But as it happens, I'm a cat person, too. I've spent a lot of time around cats, and I just get them. More than once, cats that are mean or scared of people haven taken a liking to me right away. I think being so familiar with how cats feel allows me to communicate with them on their level, using body language.

I often find myself crawling on the floor or batting at tails or nuzzling my cat's face. When I pet them, I often emulate the sort of chewing then licking process that mother cats use to clean kittens. And I have a cat that likes to roughhouse a bit, so when we play I make sure to keep my hand sort of small and pointed rather than big and open, like a little mouth. I can pretty well feel what it's like from the cat's point of view, so when I'm around a cat, I act like one.

Maybe it's a bit of a stretch, but I would guess that acting like a cat around your boyfriend is similar to the way I act around my cats: communicating using body language. It's a very easy language to understand, haha. I don't think that fully explains it, but it might factor in.

And probably also has something to do with the fact that he finds it cute. I had an ex that did this little cute voice that drove me nuts (in a good way). I've seen other girls do the cute voice, or the head tilt thing, it seems to me like a way of appearing attractive by being all girly and such.


Lol so there ya go. A nice book to read on your visitor message board XD

Hi there. Haven't talked to you in a while. How are you?

cool theme :)

Also I owe you N's Pokemon when you want to pick them up.

Your avatar is cute! Where did you find it?

So I only just noticed today that you've created your own challenge? I've read the thread, which I saw after Jak made the Challenge Index, so i'll be sure to participate sometime for you. :)

That's cool. Hope it goes well for you.

I'm doing great :)

You~?

Hello :)

Sounds good. I'm just watching Youtube. What are the Greyhound tickets for?