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    I don't know how anyone with a basic understanding of human biology or an appreciation for the life of their fellow human beings can be pro-abortion (so it might be safe to say that most do not possess either or both of these things).

    It is a biological fact that:

    A fetus is genetically unique
    A fetus is living tissue
    A fetus has human DNA

    Thus it can only be concluded that a fetus is a living human.
    QED

    Now, unless we disagree that the taking of another human life (i.e. murder) is wrong, it is safe to say that abortion is murder and thus is wrong, hence my 100% pro-life position. If you support abortion you are literally supporting the killing of another human being, or murder.

    It has been argued that "it's the woman's body, so it's her choice!" However, as I stated above (and this is a fact), it is not the woman's body at all, but the body of another human being.

    This is similar to the idea of life support. It's perfectly legal for the next of kin to decide that a person should be taken off of life support, even if they are in a coma that they can possibly wake from for example, not just someone who isn't ever going to recover. It's a matter of the rights of the child vs. the rights of the mother. If there was an affordable way to remove the child from the mother and bring it to term without infringing on the rights of the mother to her own body, then I'm sure people would advocate for that. But there isn't.

    In support of Juicy's position however, it can be summed up very simply.

    When a woman does not want to be a mother, she is pro-choice. However, when a man doesn't want to be a father, he is a dead beat dad. Juicy has been pointing out just some of the hypocrisy in society in relation to how men are treated. I honestly find this a problem too, since even if we do not want the child, men are forced by the government to pay.

    Somehow I was hoping you would bring that fun little quote up somewhere after I saw it on irc so I could explain the difference between the two. When a man supports abortion, he is pro-choice. When a woman supports abortion, she is pro-choice. Pro-choice is not a gender-specific term. A deadbeat is a person who has chosen not to financially support a child. Deadbeat mothers exist as well. If a mother abandons their child and refuses to care for them financially, they are a deadbeat mom. Specifically, it's the failure to pay court-ordered child support. It's a legal term, not whatever you try to twist it into. That sounds cute when you just spit it out with no regard to what it actually means, but if you try to give it any deeper thought it immediately falls apart.

    Let's turn that around. In a pro-life world, even if the woman does not want the child, she is forced by the government to bring it to term, change her life, lose control of her body, and possibly risk serious injury. The stakes are much higher for women than they are for men.


    Consciousness does not define humanity. The child inside however, has always been alive and breathing, since the moment of fertilisation. It is you who arbitrarily decides when it is too late to abort. I say it is too late to abort right from the very start, otherwise you are committing an act of murder.

    Question: What if the child has an identical twin, and therefore is not genetically unique? Then it's okay to murder it, right? So that premise is out the window there because not all humans are genetically unique. But if you just use 'living tissue' and 'human DNA' as the two premises that make a human, my skin is a human for a few seconds if I separate it from my body, before it dies. Because it's a human, I just committed murder. Same goes for every living thing in my body; it will continue to live for a time before it dies of lack of oxygen/food, therefore living tissue, with human DNA in it, therefore each is an individual human.

    I think you need to rethink your definition.

    History also shows us that women would lie. Up until 1988, Pennsylvania's Medicaid program funded abortions, for women who claimed they had been raped, without any requirement for reporting of the purported assault to a law enforcement agency. Under this law, abortion clinic personnel issued thinly veiled public invitations for women to simply state that they'd been raped, and the state ended up funding an average of 36 abortions a month based on such unsubstantiated claims. In 1988 the legislature added a requirement for reporting the rape to a law enforcement agency, and the average dropped to less than three abortions per month.

    If women are going to lie about it to get abortions, what about the incredibly high risk of women getting backdoor abortions, illegal, unsafe ones because they don't want their child and there's no legal alternative? While that still happens today due to monetary issues I'm sure, driving desperate women to self-harm so they don't have to give up their own body for 9 months would certainly be a negative backlash of outlawing abortion.

    In addition, while you can throw out those statistics, they can easily be interpreted in different ways which makes them not very reliable towards your argument. What about all the women who don't want to report a rape due to shame, self-hatred, being told they would have revenge exacted on them by the rapist, or any one of the other reasons that people choose not to report rape? Those could easily be applied to your statistics, therefore making them unrelated. Since you can't offer any proof that your interpretation of the statistics is correct over mine, which is also entirely valid, they're useless to you.

    It is a human, 100%. Just because the law doesn't define it as such doesn't make it a biological fact. Cognitive ability does not define a human being either - a brain dead person is still a human being. That said, a child just recently born does not have the cognitive ability you expect either - does that mean you support the murder of infants? There was recently a paper published in an ethics journal that argued just that, because that is the logical conclusion of the pro-abortion argument.

    After-birth abortion: why should the baby live? (2012)

    My opinion on when abortion should not be allowed anymore is when more than 50% of children would be able to survive outside of the mother's womb. There will of course be children that would be able to survive but can't because of some kind of birth defect; that's what the over 50% would be for, based on previous premature births of children. It would also include the use of machines to keep a child alive, as premature children even slightly can need things such as an incubator to allow them to finish developing.

    I've already shown that your biological 'definition' of a human doesn't hold up. Do you have a more exact one that shows how a fetus is a full-fledged human being?
     
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    I don't know how anyone with a basic understanding of human biology or an appreciation for the life of their fellow human beings can be pro-abortion (so it might be safe to say that most do not possess either or both of these things).

    It is a biological fact that:

    A fetus is genetically unique
    A fetus is living tissue
    A fetus has human DNA

    Thus it can only be concluded that a fetus is a living human.
    QED

    And the government kills actual human beings every day of the week. Ever been to Texas? But of course, it's ok because they're criminals.

    Consciousness does not define humanity. The child inside however, has always been alive and breathing, since the moment of fertilisation.



    You realize a fertilized egg (a Zygote, not a Blastocyst, don't play with the definitions to suit your assumptions) doesn't breathe, on account of A, being a clump of mitotic cells and B, not having lungs yet. Or not having a heart. Or a Brain, Or ears, Or a mouth. Or Hair, or a conscious, or eyes, or a nose, or arms, legs, toes, fingers, elbows, knees, eyelashes, etc. Or the fact it's 1/100th or an inch long. Barely visible to the naked eye. It isn't even attached to the Uterine wall yet. So no.




    It's not a constitutional right. Tell me where in the constitution it has the right to kill your own child?
    9th, 13th & 14th Amendments. If you would have read the document you'd know that. Provided that enumerated and implied rights are correctly understood.

    ACLU said:
    The Bill of Rights of the United States Constitution guarantees individuals the right to personal autonomy, which means that a person's decisions regarding his or her personal life are none of the government's business. That right, which is part of the right to privacy, encompasses decisions about parenthood, including a woman's right to decide for herself whether to complete or terminate a pregnancy, as well as the right to use contraception, freedom from forced sterilization and freedom from employment discrimination based on childbearing capacity.

    As early as 1923, the U.S. Supreme Court ruled that the Constitution protects personal decisions regarding marriage and the family from governmental intrusion. In 1965, the Court ruled that a state cannot prohibit a married couple from practicing contraception. In 1972, it extended the right to use birth control to all people, married or single. And in its 1973 ruling in Roe v. Wade, the Court held that the Constitution's protections of privacy as a fundamental right encompass a woman's decision to have an abortion.

    Even though a right to privacy is not named, the Ninth Amendment states that the naming of certain rights in the Constitution does not mean that other, unnamed rights are not "retained by the people." The Supreme Court has long held that the Bill of Rights protects certain liberties that, though unspecified, are "fundamental to an individual's ability to function in society." These include the right to privacy, the right to travel, the right to vote and the right to marry. The Court has articulated various constitutional bases for these liberties, including the First, Fourth, Fifth, Ninth and Fourteenth Amendments. And in recent years, the Court has viewed the privacy right as an essential part of liberty, specifically protected by the Fifth and Fourteenth Amendments.

    Since only women can become pregnant, only women are affected by laws that dictate whether and under what conditions childbearing should occur. By limiting only women's right to make personal decisions, laws that prohibit or restrict abortion discriminate on the basis of sex in violation of the Fourteenth Amendment's Equal Protection Clause.
     
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    First, I agree with everything Kylie-chan has said. I don't think I can make that argument better.

    Second, anyone should be able to choose to have sex or not if they want and to have an abortion or not if they want. Everyone should protect themselves, of course, pregnancy being only one thing out of many that you'd want to watch out for, but a person who doesn't protect themselves or protects themselves inadequately needs to be taught how to do that better so they won't let it happen again. Saying they should "accept the consequences of their actions" or some other such line is incredibly harsh. People make mistakes. Sometimes mistakes happen without it being anyone's fault. It's best if they are taken care of in the least harmful way possible which for some people will be an abortion. In a proper world no one would be ashamed of having an abortion, or even considering having one, and it wouldn't break you financially if you were poor and needed one because there would be financial support. Also, we'd have better education about sex and so would prevent more unwanted pregnancies in the first place. And that financial support would extend to medical care in general so people would be seeing their medical professionals more regularly, increasing the likelihood of unwanted pregnancies being caught early either during a checkup or from repeated information on how to check one's own body for signs of pregnancy.

    But even if we had all these wonderful things which would make it much safer and easier to get an abortion early on it still should be fine for someone to get an abortion whenever. I could go on about how there are so many things in this current world that makes it hard to get information and help and support and protection with regards to preventing pregnancy and about all the things that make it hard to resist pressures to do things like have sex before you're ready, but if I did that I would be saying that if someone had all the information at their hands and no pressures and decided to have sex they should accept every consequence to that - and that's an awful thing to say. Like I already said: anyone should be free to choose to have sex. That freedom should include the freedom to make choices after sex.
     

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    In a proper world no one would be ashamed of having an abortion, or even considering having one, and it wouldn't break you financially if you were poor and needed one because there would be financial support.

    The first part of what you just said describes a world in which people's thoughts and opinions /hold no value/.

    The second part of what you just said describes socialism. Maybe you should look into moving to Europe if that's what you're after.

    I'm not sure even our friends across the sea would be too into that first part though. How exactly is that supposed to be proper again? It's like begging for a 1984 reference, and I could swear there's one to be made somewhere. Only I can't be bo--If our thoughts and opinions have no value, does that mean there's no reason the government can't change or get rid of them for the sake of the whole? They are after all worthless.

    ...Nevermind, I can apparently bother.
     

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    The first part of what you just said describes a world in which people's thoughts and opinions /hold no value/.

    The second part of what you just said describes socialism. Maybe you should look into moving to Europe if that's what you're after.

    I'm not sure even our friends across the sea would be too into that first part though. How exactly is that supposed to be proper again? It's like begging for a 1984 reference, and I could swear there's one to be made somewhere. Only I can't be bo--If our thoughts and opinions have no value, does that mean there's no reason the government can't change or get rid of them for the sake of the whole? They are after all worthless.

    ...Nevermind, I can apparently bother.

    I think she meant that the social opinion towards abortion should shift towards no judgment towards people that have abortions. Think of the social opinions towards gay people - it's shifting towards no shame, while in the past most people were ashamed of being gay because it was considered "wrong". You're reading into that the wrong way.
     
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    Ya because you were the ones that knocked her up in the first place lol.

    And the problem here is that the father would be able to do that. The mother can't do that, because it's in her body, and if the father left during her bearing it, she is the only one left that can take care of it so obviously she can't leave it. Everyone can have a change of heart but the mother is not able to do that when the father does.
    So why are we forced to deal with the responsibility if we don't want to, but when women want a way out they can just slay the child?
    This is similar to the idea of life support. It's perfectly legal for the next of kin to decide that a person should be taken off of life support, even if they are in a coma that they can possibly wake from for example, not just someone who isn't ever going to recover. It's a matter of the rights of the child vs. the rights of the mother. If there was an affordable way to remove the child from the mother and bring it to term without infringing on the rights of the mother to her own body, then I'm sure people would advocate for that. But there isn't.

    Somehow I was hoping you would bring that fun little quote up somewhere after I saw it on irc so I could explain the difference between the two. When a man supports abortion, he is pro-choice. When a woman supports abortion, she is pro-choice. Pro-choice is not a gender-specific term. A deadbeat is a person who has chosen not to financially support a child. Deadbeat mothers exist as well. If a mother abandons their child and refuses to care for them financially, they are a deadbeat mom. Specifically, it's the failure to pay court-ordered child support. It's a legal term, not whatever you try to twist it into. That sounds cute when you just spit it out with no regard to what it actually means, but if you try to give it any deeper thought it immediately falls apart.

    Let's turn that around. In a pro-life world, even if the woman does not want the child, she is forced by the government to bring it to term, change her life, lose control of her body, and possibly risk serious injury. The stakes are much higher for women than they are for men.

    Question: What if the child has an identical twin, and therefore is not genetically unique? Then it's okay to murder it, right? So that premise is out the window there because not all humans are genetically unique. But if you just use 'living tissue' and 'human DNA' as the two premises that make a human, my skin is a human for a few seconds if I separate it from my body, before it dies. Because it's a human, I just committed murder. Same goes for every living thing in my body; it will continue to live for a time before it dies of lack of oxygen/food, therefore living tissue, with human DNA in it, therefore each is an individual human.

    I think you need to rethink your definition.

    If women are going to lie about it to get abortions, what about the incredibly high risk of women getting backdoor abortions, illegal, unsafe ones because they don't want their child and there's no legal alternative? While that still happens today due to monetary issues I'm sure, driving desperate women to self-harm so they don't have to give up their own body for 9 months would certainly be a negative backlash of outlawing abortion.

    In addition, while you can throw out those statistics, they can easily be interpreted in different ways which makes them not very reliable towards your argument. What about all the women who don't want to report a rape due to shame, self-hatred, being told they would have revenge exacted on them by the rapist, or any one of the other reasons that people choose not to report rape? Those could easily be applied to your statistics, therefore making them unrelated. Since you can't offer any proof that your interpretation of the statistics is correct over mine, which is also entirely valid, they're useless to you.
    If you want to compare life support to abortion then you'd have to be killing the mother, not the child. No I wouldn't support anything like artificial wombs, because that just cheapens motherhood, which is something I hold to very high value.

    You just missed the point. It's about how society perceives men and women who are pro-choice, and how they are perceived differently due to the double standard.

    Right now murder is illegal. Is the government somehow forcing people not to murder one another, much to their great discomfort?

    Answer: Don't be silly Toujours, I was speaking of the principle in regard to the mother. By stating that the child inside is genetically unique, I am stating that it is not part of the mother's body, and thus not her choice to do what she wishes with it, including murder it. The definition is perfectly sound. Your skin cells are not a life unto themselves, unlike the fetus inside. They are merely part of the human being. Contained in the fetus is an entire human life, just like your body.

    Abortions were not made any safer because they were legalised. They were made safer (and still aren't all that safe) because of medical advancements. "Backdoor" abortions were literally just that - women entered actual medical clinics through the backdoor and had the child killed by a trained professional. Not everything has to occur as you say though, and it's just as likely that women will not drive themselves to self harm, as you so dramatically put it. In Poland, under Communist rule in the '80s, there were consistently over 100,000 abortions registered each year as compared to about 600,000 births. With the establishment of some self-government in 1990, with both the Church and doctors discouraging abortion, the numbers fell to 59,400.

    Let's list the 1990 figures and then look ahead to 1994, the second year after abortion was forbidden except for danger to the life or health of the mother, rape and fetal handicap.
    1990 | 1994
    Total abortions 59,417 | 782
    Women's deaths connected with pregnancy 90 | 57
    Miscarriages 59,454 | 49,970
    Cases of infanticide 31 | 17
    Births 546,000 | 482,000

    During this time the number of registered abortions declined to 176th of what it had been, and there was not a single death due to illegal abortion. All of these figures are exactly opposite of what International Planned Parenthood people in Poland predicted when the restrictive law was passed.

    I'm going to have to invoke Occam's razor here. My interpretation of the statistics makes the fewest assumptions and thereby oftens the simplest explanation. You would have to offer proof for your extra assumptions to make mine interpretation invalid.
    And the government kills actual human beings every day of the week. Ever been to Texas? But of course, it's ok because they're criminals.

    You realize a fertilized egg (a Zygote, not a Blastocyst, don't play with the definitions to suit your assumptions) doesn't breathe, on account of A, being a clump of mitotic cells and B, not having lungs yet. Or not having a heart. Or a Brain, Or ears, Or a mouth. Or Hair, or a conscious, or eyes, or a nose, or arms, legs, toes, fingers, elbows, knees, eyelashes, etc. Or the fact it's 1/100th or an inch long. Barely visible to the naked eye. It isn't even attached to the Uterine wall yet. So no.

    9th, 13th & 14th Amendments. If you would have read the document you'd know that. Provided that enumerated and implied rights are correctly understood.
    While one could argue that the execution of guilty criminals is better than killing innocent children, I do not support either. Make a thread on capital punishment if you wish. That said, the freedom for individual states to decide is better than the government making an overarching decision on it, as the states represent the people much better than the federal government will (not to mention it was a court that made the decision anyway).

    Fair enough, I was incorrect by saying that it breathes, my apologies. However, according to the biological definition of life it is still a living creature.

    Reading them now and there is no such mention that you have the right to kill your own child :P

    Where is the right to privacy mentioned in the constitution? It isn't there at all, nor is it derivable from values embodied within the constitution. Not to mention the right as described in Roe v. Wade is so ridiculously broad that it could encompass any number of things, like child abuse. Because really, if you can kill your child, why can't you kill it? Do you not have the right to privacy?

    The decision made in Roe v. Wade attempted to link the privacy spheres of marriage, birth control and contraception to abortion, when abortion is not a private matter at all and thus no such link exists. In the case of use of contraceptives, such "right to privacy" was granted because it takes place in the sacred marital confines of the bedroom. Despite the link between abortion and contraceptives, the former, does not take place in the bedroom, and involve personnel other than spouses.

    There is so much more that is wrong with the Roe v. Wade decision, but to summarise it all neatly, it is unconstitutional, as the court exceeded its constitutional authority, and on top of that, should be disregarded for a number of reasons, including misrepresentation of the history of abortion and the attitudes of society towards it.

    In any case, what is the law does not equal what is moral.
     

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    I don't know about your average pro-abortionist. But I know that if the unthinkable should happen, and I fall pregnant, I wouldn't be mentally, socially or emotionally equipped to handle the situation.
    "But what about adoption".
    Yeah, some people do this. But is an unknown, genderless, limbless blob of chromosomes and separating cells seriously worth more in your mind then the stigma and social isolation a young woman might go through throughout 9 months of pregnancy? I honestly find it a gross violation of gender equality to condemn a woman to suffer through this, to forbid her from removing what is essentially an abnormal growth from her body.
    Abnormal growth? Pregnancy's not a disease. O_o

    In any event, to reiterate what I had said in the reproductive rights thread (where I apparently preempted this thread by a few hours XD)...

    I think that abortions, for the most part, should be legally permitted. I can see how it could be necessary or advisable at times. I agree with a woman's right to choose in that respect. My only qualms with it really is the potential of abuse if used as an active form of birth control. While I know that's (hopefully) not the main usage, I find it somewhat morally questionable.

    On the other hand, with the exception of cases where it is necessary (medical emergencies for example), I do not agree with late-term abortions. At that point in the development it's not "an unknown, genderless, limbless blob of chromosomes and separating cells". It is now viable, it's chance of survival if it were born prematurely is extremely high. In France and Germany (widely considered to have the best health care systems in the world) they do not permit partial-birth abortions. That said though, I'm not overly compelled for it to be a main voting issue for me. Not by a long shot.
     
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    @Toujours:

    ...Well contrary to what you said it seems like I'm heading into this exactly the right way judging by your interpretation. You see, being gay and getting an abortion have exactly nothing in common besides being counter-culture. I mean let's face it being gay is not a choice and getting an abortion is. That makes them nothing alike right off the bat for all intents and purposes.

    The notion that people should only have the option of judging someone's actions positively is /hilarious/. I suppose that's the stereotype of extreme liberalism. They only preach freedom when it benefits their own agenda. After that, it's time to take away freedom in the name of security!
     

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    @Toujours:

    ...Well contrary to what you said it seems like I'm heading into this exactly the right way judging by your interpretation. You see, being gay and getting an abortion have exactly nothing in common besides being counter-culture. I mean let's face it being gay is not a choice and getting an abortion is. That makes them nothing alike right off the bat for all intents and purposes.

    The notion that people should only have the option of judging someone's actions positively is /hilarious/. I suppose that's the stereotype of extreme liberalism. They only preach freedom when it benefits their own agenda. After that, it's time to take away freedom in the name of security!

    Not that it shouldn't be allowed, but that she wants society's opinion to shift. It's similar in that society used to make people who came out as gay feel ashamed, while now it's leaning towards the opposite. Similarly, now people who choose to get an abortion are often ashamed, but she wants it to lean towards the opposite. Not for it to be mandated, just for it to happen.

    I want people to be nicer to each other. I'm not asking for a court mandate that you can't say mean things to each other. I'm just hoping that one day the public in general will begin to be nicer to each other and see the error of their ways. You're still interpreting it as "I want to force everyone to accept it", which is not what she said. She just said that in a proper world people wouldn't be ashamed of it. Not that in a proper world people weren't allowed to see it negatively, but that people don't see it negatively. You're adding in that little clause and then twisting it to be some horrible "LET'S REGULATE PEOPLES' SPEECH" thing. Take three on her post, this time try not to go off on your own tangent and read what's actually written there, instead of what you want to rant about.
     

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    I believe it's a good thing to have around, but some people don't use it well. It's good for people who were raped or are unable to care for a child, but if people just do it like mad animals and use abortion as a late birth control? No. Sure it's a living thing in all, but if you force a baby onto (a) parent(s) that they don't want/can't have, you may be ruining the future child's life. They could be forced into a life where thier parents hate them, or are unable to care for them. Theres always the orphanage, but last time I checked, people don't like to live in an orphanage, and not all of them get out early.
     

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    The decision made in Roe v. Wade attempted to link the privacy spheres of marriage, birth control and contraception to abortion, when abortion is not a private matter at all and thus no such link exists. In the case of use of contraceptives, such "right to privacy" was granted because it takes place in the sacred marital confines of the bedroom. Despite the link between abortion and contraceptives, the former, does not take place in the bedroom, and involve personnel other than spouses.
    What? What do you mean?

    Your medical business is nobody's business. Doctor-patient confidentiality. You can make it as public as you want (like some people do who are fighting cancer, although I don't want to equate the two at all) or not. But it is not inherently public.

    Also... only married people use contraceptives now?
     
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    The first part of what you just said describes a world in which people's thoughts and opinions /hold no value/.
    I would really like to know how you arrived at that conclusion. I believe what I said was that I want a world where people aren't made to feel ashamed to have an abortion, not that I want a world where thoughts and opinions have no value. I could be wrong. Let me check back to what I said. Hm. No, I wasn't wrong. I said what I thought I said. Please do me that favor of showing me the route your logic train took because you only seemed to post the first and last stops and none of the ones in between.
     

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    When the cause of pregnancy was done willingly by the mother, then no, I don't think it's right at all. You had sex, now you're pregnant. Deal with it.

    In the case of rapes, however, I do think people should have the choice to abort. I don't think it's the right thing to do, nor will I do it if I (god forbid) experienced it myself, but they should be free to do what they think would be best for their child, their family and themselves.
     

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    Um... what's with all this "if she chose to have sex" nonsense? It's the 21st century. Why are we still equating sex to procreation? One is needed for the other, but that doesn't mean that it's mutually exclusive. That sex and procreation are mutually exclusive was defined solely by religious values and societal "norms", not by any scientific evidence or any sort of extensive research. Sex is perfectly natural. It feels good. And we now have the means to make it so that anyone can have sex and not bear a child if they feel that they are not yet responsible or financially secure enough to raise it properly. Why restrict or demean others for using them? Because sex is bad or immoral? Again, religious beliefs, that not everyone believes. It's cool that you think that sex is dirty or immoral; the right to think as such is guaranteed by the first amendment to the constitution. What's not guaranteed however is the right to push your beliefs onto others. Sex feels good and even offers health benefits. That much is FACT. Sex should only be used for procreation is an OPINION or BELIEF.

    Most common reason why people are "pro-life" is because "all life is sacred" or "sanctity of life" or whatever. Anti-choicers like to tout this as if their cause a greater good and that they truly care about life. At the same time though, people are dying due to hunger, war, disease, crime (both the offender and the victims), and even through unsafe illegal abortions, a result of the world they want to create. Do we hear chants of "pro-life" in these cases? Most of the time, people who tout "pro-life" stances (conservatives) are pro-war, pro-death penalty, and anti-healthcare as well. Not to mention that none of these anti-choicers seem to care about the baby after it's out of the womb. No support for the mother if she's financially unstable and defunding of public education. What a great world this child will be born into. Y'all are "pro-life" alright. Pro-fetus is more like it. As soon as it leaves the womb, it's on its own. "Pro-life" will fight and protest for the rights of the unborn, but turn a blind eye on those that are already alive and are at risk of having it taken away.

    Father has a say in abortion? He's not the one who has to give birth. He's not the one who risks their job for parental leave. He's not the one with a uterus. It's a woman's choice and a woman's choice alone. Same goes for the reverse. If a man wants an abortion, but the mother doesn't, it's her choice to carry that baby to term. Pro-CHOICE, not pro-abortion.

    "Just give it up for adoption"? Adoption is an alternative to parenthood, not pregnancy. Our orphanages are already full of unwanted kids ready to be adopted. Why is the concept of every parent willing and every child wanted so hard to grasp?

    One last thing: 9 months is a lot of time for various circumstances to come up. Financial situation becomes unstable. Relationship ends or is troubled. All kinds of things that may create an unideal atmosphere for a child. Why restrict access to a safe transition so that the mother can get her life back on tract before having another child? It seems hella the most responsible thing to do in that situation rather than the opposite.

    Keep abortion safe. Keep abortion legal. Stop shaming women for their choices in sex.
     

    Oryx

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    When the cause of pregnancy was done willingly by the mother, then no, I don't think it's right at all. You had sex, now you're pregnant. Deal with it.

    Should we take away help for people who get in car accidents, whether or not it was their fault, because they willingly made the choice to drive?
     

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    I don't really like the idea of abortion. Even if you're pro-choice (like myself), you have to realize it's pretty much a guarantee that if left alone that fetus will develop into a baby.

    But we don't exactly live in an ideal world, and I don't know for 100% certainty how much awareness or consciousness a fetus might have.

    I also don't think I have a right to say whether someone can get an abortion or not. Just like I don't think it's my place to say whether someone can get married or not.

    Pro choice.
     
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    Even if you hate abortion with a seething passion, you will have to accept that people are going to go for that option whether it's legal or not. The only reason abortion was legalised in the UK in '67 was because there were so many illegal backstreet abortions at the time. Since the modern era, sex is about pleasure not reproduction; society will never be able to go back to how it was pre-20th century, no matter how much anyone wants it to be that way. There are a lot of people having a lot of sex and if we try and make abortion illegal, the only thing it will achieve is creating a dangerous backstreet market for abortions and throwing women's rights back into the dark age. Alternatively we're going to have a lot of unwanted kids experiencing unhappy childhood's full of neglect.
     

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    Should we take away help for people who get in car accidents, whether or not it was their fault, because they willingly made the choice to drive?

    I'm gonna bring seatbelts and condoms (yeah...) into this. If someone was driving, they have an accident, and they weren't wearing a seatbelt then tbh, athough they're going to get help, it was partly their fault that they got injured. Same with pregnancy - many people are forgetting that you can have sex with protection and you won't get pregnant. If you and your partnet have sex without a condom or any other protection and you end up pregnant, then you are entirely responsible for that pregnancy. You knew the risk of having unprotected sex, you took it, and now you're pregnant. If you didn't want the baby then make sure that you and your partner both use adequate protection.
     

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    In the same vein, seat belts aren't perfect. Vehicle related deaths still occur and condoms break. Additionally, I'm pretty sure medical attention isn't denied to those not wearing seat belts, so abortions shouldn't be denied to those who didn't use adequate protection. Accidents happen.
     
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    I'm gonna bring seatbelts and condoms (yeah...) into this. If someone was driving, they have an accident, and they weren't wearing a seatbelt then tbh, athough they're going to get help, it was partly their fault that they got injured. Same with pregnancy - many people are forgetting that you can have sex with protection and you won't get pregnant. If you and your partnet have sex without a condom or any other protection and you end up pregnant, then you are entirely responsible for that pregnancy. You knew the risk of having unprotected sex, you took it, and now you're pregnant. If you didn't want the baby then make sure that you and your partner both use adequate protection.

    This whole justification for anti-abortion as "punishment" for people who don't take adequate protection is just inhumane. This is about bringing a child into existence. People who think this is a good mindset are essentially using human lives as a stupid form of "i told you so" for apparently stupid teens.
     
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