Hi Shawn
How are you doing this weekend? Hopefully the silver lining to the rain cloud had appeared, or a little rainbow with a pot of gold at the end for you.
I have not dealt with depression and anxiety lately that's something I struggle with more in the winter/fall. Summer is when I come alive, but I am really lethargic and tired however I will say, and struggling to get organized. I think I probaby need more sunlight, normally I would be super active this time of year, but the pandemic has changed life a lot. I thought I would be in Morocco this summer before all this happened. I am still doing well, all things considered and feel optimistic about what the future could hold. I will survive.
You know I love tales of kings and queens. I wanted to double check which Catherine you had in mind? Since there were 3 married to Henry the 8th, Catherine of Aragon, Catherine Howard and Catherine Parr, all of which are sympathetic and interesting in their own ways, I thought I would make sure that we were still on the same page.
My mother taught me a lot about English monarchs as a kid. She was always drawn to the UK, and low and behold she has quite a bit of British ancestry, so it's not too surprising. She loves Celtic dance, art, religion and music well. In my ancestry DNA records I saw English, Scottish and French ancestry there, all of which my mom said she was, so that makes sense. What surprised me though was the Irish, Welsh and Norwegian, they weren't high percentages, but it was something I didn't know about at all, and interesting to learn. And I have also to be proud of roots in the Congo, Mali, Benin, Nigeria, Togo and Cameroon. So you have a very exotic girlfriend.
While, I know something about the western monarchy, you seem tp have read extensively about Imperial China, and I believe there is so much rich information I could learn from you, like tapping a wise and grounded tree.
Have you heard a television series called The Story of Yanxi palace? It's a drama and love story set within the harem during the dynasty of Emperor Qian Long. I immensely enjoyed most of it, the extravagant costumes, the great actors, and unexpected plot twists. I think you might enjoy it too since you seem like a great Sinophile.
That's a very interesting question, what kind of queen I would be? I love the direction that these conversations are taking by the way.
Before i answer I want to confirm are you asking me specifically which country I would like to reign in and what period of time, or just what my inclination would be to do as queen? Because the type of monarch I could realistically be could greatly vary depending on the framework of the government I would work within.
I'm glad you liked all the chocolate. The video definitely made me think of you. Speaking of sweets, my aunt and mother went to the farmer's market this morning. I am myself still a little reluctant to go into environments with that much hustle and bustle, but these two women braved covid, and returned with the most delightful of sweets. I have a yummy box of truffles and pain au chocolat to thank them for. Reminds me so of living abroad.
As for writing, each and everyone one of us works differently. What might stop me when writing a story that I start off passionate about is just becoming very busy, whether it's with work or a class or volunteer work, helping a loved one or mod duties. I don't easily run out of ideas, but if significant time passes before I can find an opportunity to return to a story then I might just forget about or lose the initial enthusiasm and move on to a different project, it's not so much a general writing slump. The way I operate is out of sight, out of mind. it's easier for me to work on the same project consistently for months or years, then it is for me to stop for a length of time then revisit. That is just how I roll though, I live very much live in the moment. I know other writers who do sometimes experience writer's block and just put down the story challenging them to do something else, and will be renewed later. I think this is the way Stephen King works. So if you feel a different project calling to you Shawn, and believe you are stuck with your current mystery then why not try something else?
May Smeargle lend you his creativity Sweetheart. Xoxoxo
-Sam