Consider this: your experiences are not reflective of or similar to experiences of other people. No one is telling you in what ways you may or may not be oppressed, but merely the power imbalances between different groups of people are being highlighted.
Exactly, so why do you feel that you have the right to explain to me how oppressed that all women are? In fact, like I stated previously, this is not based on only my own opinion, but every woman that I've ever met in real life. And maybe it's also based on the fact that a lot of the "studies" people are going around and quoting contain milked statistics that don't accurately represent the current environment. Again, I listed a list of tens of articles that list why the wage gap is questionable, and you simply glossed over it saying "these stats don't seem reputable". Perhaps stats from both sides are not reputable and we need to look at what both sides are saying in order to come to a justified conclusion, because this is one of those debates that clearly has a segmented bias based on opinion.
Have you ever considered the negative effect of these statistics? Let's take that 1 in 4 raped statistic, which implies that around 37,500,000 Americans will be raped. First off, that number alone is pretty ♥♥♥♥ing outrageous. But to people who don't do the math, do you think that this might encourage abuse, fear, and hatred against men? Or perhaps the "women recieve around 75% the wage that men do" statistic, which implies that a man making $50,000 salary, the woman only makes $37,500. Do you think that that perhaps shuts down women to making certain choices in their education that perhaps does eventually close down possible career paths? Do you think that perhaps spreading nonsense is also spreading fear, hatred, and disgust
for something that doesn't even exist?
Please do not use ableist slurs.
Thank you for proving that you come off of tumblr, although your previous arguments made this clear prior.
Now that you bring this lovely thing into the discussion (read: one of the most irritating things I have seen on the internet), let me explain why the word "retarded" is not discriminatory against people with disabilities.
First off, "retarded" means "slow". It is true that the term "mentally retarded" refers to someone who has cognitional difficulties, and now frequently means something that is stupid. Retarded can refer to a ton of things that have nothing to do with disabilities such as a computer acting up due to viruses, a device malfunctioning, or your argument.
As someone who is moderately autistic, I think it's pretty offensive that the first thing that comes to your mind when you think of "retard" is "ableist slur", especially considering that it rarely refers to someone with a disability, and even in my post it does nothing to mock a disability in general. Perhaps I do not like being talked down to in this thread, being told that "I don't understand the oppression that women face" when I'M A ♥♥♥♥ING WOMAN (by men no less) and maybe pointing out that the modern feminist agenda online is hypocritical and perhaps exaggerating in its cause.
And wait! What's this? It seems like I don't appreciate the fact that people who feel like they have the right to determine what the entire community should treat me like because "oh my better not offend people like learning disabilities" such as MYSELF because we don't know any better or it might hurt our feewings or whatever the ♥♥♥♥.
By the way, assuming that the word is a slur to disabled people is discriminatory in of itself because you're assuming that every disabled person is offended by it. Maybe, just maybe, it's how people
use a word, as opposed to the word itself! Woah, get out! Actually, no. Get off your ♥♥♥♥ing high horse.
So frankly, I don't care what your opinion is at this point because you basically just glanced over my post, found a thing to peck at, and called it that. It's a little depressing that this is literally what you have as a rebuttal.
But I digress. This is a topic about feminism. And I don't agree with what it has become. The posts in this thread make this clear enough. I believe in equality, not going around and invoking revenge, or spouting statistics to scare people into submission. I don't agree with the fact that several people here feel the urge to tell me about how oppressed women are, when most of them are scratching their heads, asking, "really"? I find it fascinating that this thread focuses more on flashy statistics that could easily be biased than, perhaps, I dunno, the opinions of women?